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Promoting Psychological
Competence
Psychological competence is
a person’s ability to deal effectively with the demands and challenges of
everyday life. It is a person’s ability to maintain a state of mental well
being and to demonstrate this in adaptive and positive behavior while
interacting with others, his/her culture environment.
Psychological competence
has an important role to play in the promotion of health in its broadest sense;
in terms of physical, mental and social well being. In particular, where health
problems are related to behavior, and where the behavior is related to an
inability to deal effectively with stresses and pressures in life, the
enhancement of psychosocial competence could make an important contribution.
This is especially important for health promotion at a time when behavior is
more implicated as the source of health problems.
The most direct
interventions for the promotion of psychological competence are those who
enhance the person’s copping resources, and personal and social competencies.
In school-based programmes for children and adolescents, this can be done by
the teaching of life skills in a supportive learning environment.
Defining Life Skills
Life skills are abilities
for adaptive and positive behavior, that enable individuals to deal effectively
with the demands and challenges of everyday life.
Described in this way,
skills that can be said to be life skills are innumerable, and the nature and
definition of life skills are likely to differ across cultures and settings.
However, analysis of the skill field suggests that there is a core set of
skills that are at the heart of skills-based initiatives for the promotion of
the health and well being of children and adolescents. These are listed below:
- Decision making
- Problem solving
- Creative thinking
- Critical thinking
- Effective communication
- Interpersonal relationship skills
- Self-awareness
- Empathy
- Coping with emotions
- Coping with stress
Decision making helps us to deal constructively
with decisions about our lives. This can have consequences for health if young
people actively make decisions about their actions in relation to health by
assessing the different options, and what effects different decisions may have.
Similarly, problem
solving enables us to deal constructively with problems in our lives.
Significant problems that are left unresolved can cause mental stress and give
rise to accompanying physical strain.
Creative thinking contributes to both decision making
and problem solving by enabling us to explore the available alternatives and
various consequences of our actions or non-action. It helps us to look beyond
our direct experience, and even if no problem is identified, or no decision is
to be made, creative thinking can help us to respond adaptively and with
flexibility to the situations of our daily lives.
Critical thinking is an ability to analyze
information and experiences in an objective manner. Critical thinking can
contribute to health by helping us to recognize and assess the factors that
influence attitudes and behavior, such as values, peer pressure, and the media.
Effective communication means that we are able to express
ourselves, both verbally and non-verbally, in ways that are appropriate to our
cultures and situations. This means being able to express opinions and desires,
but also needs and fears. And it may mean being able to ask for advice and help
in a time of need.
Interpersonal
relationship skills help us to relate in positive ways with the people we interact with. This may
mean being able to make and keep friendly relationships, which can be of great
importance to our mental and social well- being . It may mean keeping good
relations with family members, which are an important source of social support.
It may also mean being able to end relationships constructively.
Self-awareness includes our recognition of
ourselves, of our character, of our strengths and weaknesses, desires and
dislikes. Developing self-awareness can help us to recognize when we are
stressed or feel under pressure. It is also often a prerequisite for effective
communication and interpersonal relations, as well as for developing empathy
for others.
Empathy is the ability to imagine what life
is for another person, even in a situation that we may not be familiar with.
Empathy can help us to understand and accept others, who may be very different
from ourselves, which can improve social interactions, for example, in
situations of ethnic or cultural diversity. Empathy can also help to encourage
nurturing behavior towards people in need of care and assistance, or tolerance,
as is the case with AIDS sufferers, or people with mental disorders, who may be
stigmatized and ostracized by the very people they depend upon for support.
Coping with emotions involves recognizing emotions in
ourselves and other being aware of how emotions influence behavior, and being
able to respond to emotions appropriately. Intense emotion, like anger or
sorrow can have negative effects on our health if we do not react
appropriately.
Coping with stress is about recognizing the sources of
stress in our lives, recognizing how this affects us, and acting in ways that
help to control our levels of stress. This may mean that we take action to
reduce the sources of stress, for example, by making changes to our physical
environment or lifestyle. Or it may mean learning how to relax, so that
tensions created by unavoidable stress do not give rise to health problems.
Introduction to Life
Skills for Psychosocial Competence. National Advocacy Workshop on Life Skills
Education for Promoting Children’s, Positive Behaviors and Healthy Life
Style.Manila.April 1999.
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