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July 2010

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SELF-HELP Build Your Self-Esteem

 

Self-esteem is the way you feel about yourself.  You create a picture of yourself from the feedback you receive from other people; from the expectations of society; and from your imagination of the future.

 

You can develop self-esteem and self-confidence by the following ways:

 

√          Believe that you can achieve things.  One small step can lead to another until you have traveled a long way.

√          Being good in something helps you gain confidence, whether it’s computer technology or sports.  Practice your skills until you are good at it.  Then when you are feeling bad, say to yourself “yes, but I’m good at…”

√          Do not be too hard with yourself.  If you have done wrong, give enough time to make things better.  Say some good things about yourself.

√          Listen and value the words each person says.  Tell others what they have done well, their strengths and the things you like in them.  By valuing others, you are valued in return.

√          Consider every person as special and unique.  Each individual has different experiences in life and so do you.

√          Learn how it is to be in other people’s shoes and accept his or her limitations.  It is by understanding others that you are understood.

√          Family and friends can help you feel good about yourself. Sometimes they forget to praise you, often they criticize.  This lowers your self-esteem.  You can encourage people to praise you by praising them.  You can criticize people in a helpful way that does not make them feel bad.  Be careful that you do not hurt them by teasing.

√          If you have the right self-esteem, you can communicate your desires better to others.

 

 

 

Published in Healthy Young Ones, A Teen’s Guide to Healthy Lifestyle booklet by the Department of Health.

 
 
 
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